{"id":9137,"date":"2025-06-25T16:56:44","date_gmt":"2025-06-25T14:56:44","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/academy.grainesdepaix.org\/ressources\/the-desire-for-violence\/"},"modified":"2026-05-24T15:51:47","modified_gmt":"2026-05-24T13:51:47","slug":"the-desire-for-violence","status":"publish","type":"ressource","link":"https:\/\/academy.grainesdepaix.org\/en\/ressources\/the-desire-for-violence\/","title":{"rendered":"The desire for violence"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>&#8211; You can explain to them without having to run away!<br \/>&#8211; Precisely, the problem is that I find it hard to express myself. It gets on my nerves and I want to smash things up. <\/p>\n<p>&#8211; But why? What happened?<br \/>&#8211; On Sunday, I want to go to the soccer game and they want us to visit my grandmother in her retirement home. Talk about an outing!<br \/>&#8211; And that&#8217;s why you want to run away?<br \/>&#8211; Well yeah, self-defense!  <\/p>\n<p>&#8211; You&#8217;ve got it all mixed up. Self-defense is when you&#8217;re attacked, and that&#8217;s not your case. Your reaction is too strong: disproportionate!<br \/>&#8211; Easy! You&#8217;re cool. Nothing throws you off, not even a tsunami.<br \/>&#8211; And you&#8217;re like a bomb or a mine: as soon as someone touches you, you explode.<br \/>&#8211; I&#8217;ve always been like that.   <\/p>\n<p>&#8211; Maybe, but there&#8217;s nothing to stop you from changing. You decide.<br \/>&#8211; I don&#8217;t decide anything, I react to aggression and violence from others.<br \/>&#8211; Visiting your grandmother is not violence.<br \/>&#8211; You&#8217;re not going to lecture me too! <\/p>\n<p>&#8211; And why not? I&#8217;m your buddy and I don&#8217;t work like you, so I&#8217;m trying to help you. Question: don&#8217;t you like your grandma?<br \/>&#8211; I do&#8230; I like her, even though she gives me money from time to time.<br \/>&#8211; What&#8217;s the problem?<br \/>&#8211; I don&#8217;t want to miss the game.  <\/p>\n<p>&#8211; Maybe there&#8217;s another way? In the morning, you go to see your grandmother on your own, so you can please your parents. Then&#8230; in the afternoon you go to the match.<br \/>&#8211; Ah, that&#8217;s cool! You&#8217;ve come up with a solution. I think the parents will agree to the deal.<br \/>&#8211; I keep telling you that you get worked up over nothing. Do what I do, take the time to talk things over.    <\/p>\n<p>&#8211; Me, I talk when I get angry. How do you keep the violence under control?<br \/>&#8211; I&#8217;m in control, man, I&#8217;m in control.<br \/>&#8211; How? Are you going to explain it to me? You see, you&#8217;ve got a problem too. You talk and talk and say nothing. It&#8217;s like you&#8217;ve got a secret, man.<br \/>&#8211; It&#8217;s simple: you disconnect, you unplug, you just calm down!<br \/>&#8211; And where&#8217;s the switch so you don&#8217;t freak out?<br \/>&#8211; In your head, man, in your tiny little head.     <\/p>\n<p>&#8211; Where are the instructions?<br \/>&#8211; To each his own, that&#8217;s personal, man. It&#8217;s up to you to find the method if you want to live happier. It&#8217;s better than winning the lottery.<br \/>&#8211; Nonsense! The lottery makes you rich.  <\/p>\n<p>&#8211; And isn&#8217;t the love of one&#8217;s parents and friends 24-carat gold?<br \/>&#8211; You&#8217;re right, mate, I&#8217;m going to look for the switch to my inner volcano.<br \/>&#8211; Right, and when you find it, send me his photo by mms.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><strong>Sketch written for Graines de Paix by Emilie Salamin-Amar.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><em>2006 Emilie Salamin-Amar of Editions Plan\u00e8te Lilou.<br \/>All rights reserved. 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